How Long Should Sex Last? What's Normal Average?

If you’ve ever watched romcoms or raunchy comedies, there are often jokes about how long a guy lasts in bed – and if his sex time is short, it’s always the butt of the joke. But who says there’s a specific length that sex should last anyway? There always seems to be a debate over it, so let’s get down to business about how long you should last while getting down to business. We always asked this question during the couple’s live sex show to our performers. The answer we got from these couples varies.

One day, it seems like someone decided that sex needed to last hours and that should be the norm. But guess what? That’s not the case. And for most people, it’s not even desirable. Everybody is different, their interests and stamina vary, and there’s no one-size-fits-all method to sex. That may not be the answer most people want to hear, but it’s the truth.

Before we go into details of optimal or perfect time, let’s first understand what is the real definition of sex? and we would like to remind you that to enjoy the best time during sex first you need to build a meaningful relationship with lots of etiquette. Cam sex advice we wrote in our earlier blogs, applies in real life too.

What is the Perfect Sex Time?

First things first, sex is different for everyone. For some people, it’s all about penetration. It’s the main event and all things are leading to that. But for others, they may never even penetrate their partner and still consider their sex life to be enjoyable and fulfilling. So in those cases, how do you measure how long the “sex” lasts? Wouldn’t this romp be much longer? As all of you know the main rule of life is “female first” always, let’s understand this from a woman’s point of view.

Like most things when it comes to sex and relationships, it varies from couple to couple. It also depends on the situation. Again, it also begs the question, what kind of sex are you having? Vaginal, anal sex like cam girl model GwenStephaniex, or maybe oral sex? There are a lot of factors at play here to know exactly how long sex can be. If you came here hoping for a definitive answer, I can’t give it to you.

However, science does have some numbers that may ease your mind. According to a Norwegian sex study published in the Journal of Public Health in 2009, the average length of intercourse in Europe is eight minutes. However, it varies greatly. More specifically, it can range anywhere from one minute up to 15 – all considered “normal,” according to Finnish researchers.

Common Misconceptions About Sex

Of course, when it comes to how long sex should last, we all know about the misconceptions many of us have. It’s not our fault, usually, these ideas are drilled into our heads at a young age thanks to porn and pop culture. Some of them, we grow out of once we gain more experience. However, some of these misconceptions stick in your head for years and can really worsen your insecurities.

One of these misconceptions is about longer sex time is perfect. Porn scenes show marathon fucking sessions that can last over an hour and, for most people, that’s not realistic. Usually, in porn, that doesn’t even involve foreplay or any breaks. They go from zero to 60 and then they stay at that level the entire time.

If you’re the kind of person who can have sex for hours like a pornstar, that’s amazing. Hopefully, you have a partner who appreciates that and matches your energy and libido level. However, that’s not the case for most average people. In fact, in North America, according to the Journal of Sexual Medicine, the average sex session is 5.4 minutes long.

Some experts say that more than 15 minutes might be considered too long. Of course, this depends on the person and the activity. But you never want your romp to get boring, either. Don’t forget, your body has parts other than just your genitals. Explore each other’s erogenous zones and take your time getting to the main event.

In-Person Versus Virtual

When we talk about normal sex time, that doesn’t necessarily apply to cam sex sessions. When you’re having virtual sex on RabbitsCams, there are so many other factors at play. Many people may have lower inhibitions when it comes to virtual sex and are more willing to let go of all their insecurities to really enjoy themselves, thus helping them last longer.

When it comes to in-person sex, the factors usually include how long foreplay was and, of course, usually includes penetrative sex. But if it’s virtual, there is no penetration, which can really extend how long you last. That’s when it really comes down to making things enjoyable.

Not to mention, when you’re having virtual sex, you’re usually in a private room with a cam girl. That means you are paying by the minute – so every second counts! Start slow and really set the tone, but don’t try and keep it going for too long. Stay in the moment and let yourself feel good. Don’t worry about finishing too soon. If you’re enjoying yourself, that’s all that matters.

These cam girls know what they’re doing, so if you finish quickly, they might even see it as a compliment. A job well done – and in record time! Using sex toys during cam shows can also help make virtual sex feel even more real, which can make the overall experience even more enjoyable.

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Enjoy Your Time With Your Wife, Girl Friend or Even Cam Girl, Short or Long

If you’re worried about your sex sessions not lasting long enough, stop and think for a second. Who’s saying it’s too short? If it’s your partner complaining, try opening a dialogue about what they expect and how you can both please each other. If you feel like you don’t last long enough, maybe try and pinpoint why that is.

Sure, you can train yourself to last longer and use all the tips and tricks you can find online. But at the end of the day, you’re not alone, and as long as you and your sex partner enjoy it, who cares? We spend far too much time worrying about being normal or trying to match the status quo.

Have sex the way you want to have sex, whether that’s in person or with a sexy cam girl on RabbitsCams, and don’t let societal expectations get in the way! I promise, once you stop worrying so much, you can have a clear head and just let sex happen without any insecurities.