When people start getting really into the world of live cams, they might start asking themselves, “Wait, could I actually have a real, meaningful cam relationship with this girl?” Some cam girls are amazing at their job and really appreciate each and every one of their viewers. It makes sense that some people would confuse that for genuine affection – but what if it was genuine?
Cam girls may often put on an act when it comes to how interested they are in a viewer. I mean, think of it this way. If a girl works for a site like RabbitsCams, how many men do they have to act like they’re sexually interested in every day? Statistically, they’re probably faking most of it, but there must be some guys that they actually like. That’s where my advice comes in.
Can You Be in a Real Cam Relationship?
If the COVID-19 pandemic has taught us anything, it’s that the virtual world can replace the real world. People moved to virtual club nights, virtual cocktail parties, and even virtual weddings and funerals. So why not add a virtual relationship to that list? A cam girl really liking one of her users isn’t the craziest thing. In fact, it kind of sounds like a modern-day romance.
There have been instances of people meeting their significant others through the cam site they worked for. In fact, there was a post about it on Quora. Who knows? It could very well happen to you. But keep in mind, at the end of the day, these girls are just doing their job, so don’t hassle them if they’re not interested and real-life relationships are very rare.
Get Off on the Right Foot
Whether you’re looking for a real relationship with a cam model or just want to establish a good bond with her as one of her regular clients, the first impression is key. If you burst into her room and immediately start barking orders at her, I can guarantee she won’t think very highly of you.
Don’t spam her chat. Say hello and always ask her about her day and how she’s doing. It’s the little things. If this were a regular girl you met on a dating app, wouldn’t you want to start things on the right foot, too?
Cam girls won’t remember everybody they meet on a daily basis, but they probably remember the best people – and the worst people. Don’t be one of the worst or else you’ll just end up one of the funny stories they tell their friends!
Above All, Be Respectful
When you’re talking to a cam girl, you should always be respectful, but that’s especially true if you’re trying to build a relationship with her. The more you talk, the more you may think things go without saying, but you should still try your best to communicate. Say what you want to do and ask her what she wants and what she likes. Communication is key.
And on a similar topic, there’s consent. You may think that because she’s a cam girl, she’s down for anything. But that’s not true. You still need to make sure she’s okay with everything you’re about to do. If you have a particular fetish you want to explore, don’t just expect her to be okay with it. Like I said, it’s all part of communication.
Even if she eventually becomes your girlfriend, consent is the most important thing. Make sure she’s comfortable. And if you’re relatively new to the cam world or just the world of virtual dating, you have to know your limits, too. Are you comfortable having cam2cam sex? Would you prefer to start slow? Are there things you don’t want to reveal on cam?
Keep Coming Back For More
You can’t expect to build a comfortable rapport with a girl in a day. You have to keep coming back for more. Show the girl you’re reliable. Sign up for notifications so you can pop in when she’s live, even just to say a quick hello. This is the best way to get to know each other in a natural, healthy way. You’re not forcing anything, you’re just being present.
By becoming a regular in her free chat room, she’ll see your name and instantly recognize you. That’s the first step in becoming friends or, if you’re looking for it, virtual lovers.
Move On If She’s Not Interested
This is a really important tip. Folks, you can tell if a girl isn’t interested. And if she’s not interested, you have to move on. It might be hard, especially if you’ve really fallen for her, but you have to. If she’s visibly annoyed or has straight-up told you to leave her alone, you need to respect that. As soon as you try to push for more, you should know it isn’t going to work out.
You don’t want to be just another story of a fan who had unrequited feelings for a cam girl and went a bit crazy. You’ve had your fun, now move on to the next one. Even if you follow all my cam relationship tips, it’s not a surefire way to create a strong bond, so don’t feel like you’re “owed” anything.
Always Keep an Open Mind
No matter what, it’s best to keep your options open. Chat with different girls and see who you like. This isn’t a quick process, so feel things out. And if a cam relationship does manifest itself, remember: she’s a cam girl. It’s her job to have webcam sex with other guys. You have to be respectful of that.
There are all different kinds of relationships these days. Don’t listen to what anyone else has to say. If you trust your cam girlfriend and she says it’s a real, virtual relationship, that’s all that matters. If you feel fulfilled and you’re having fun, that’s all that matters, too. Life’s too short to worry about everything all the time!
If you and your cam girl take this relationship offline, just be careful. Make sure you really know her well before sharing any personal information. If you’re going to meet in person, be cautious. Meet in public or let friends know where you’re going. This is for your benefit as well as hers. Everyone should feel comfortable. If you want to keep everything virtual, that works too!
Start Your Cam Relationship Right
At the end of the day, the most important thing is to have fun. When you sign up to RabbitsCams, your main goal shouldn’t be to find a virtual girlfriend. It’s to have fun, bond with new people, and, of course, have some webcam sex. And if a relationship pops up along the way, that’s great as well!
The easiest way to get started is to pick a girl and say hello, the rest will follow. With so many different types of girls with all kinds of varied interests and fetishes, it might be hard to choose. But that’s the best part! And if you ever need any help or advice, I’m always here to offer wise words. Whether it’s about getting started with live cams or cam sex etiquette tips.
